So if you want free three minutes, fill out your email address and either I’ll send you a coupon via my account, or if I’ve reached my allotment for the month, I’ll forward it on to a friend who is at Niteflirt. (Her account is active, but she no longer takes calls at this time)

Set your spam filters so niteflirt.com mail goes through. And if your email has already been used at Niteflirt, don’t bother because I’ll get a red message that says you aren’t eligible for the coupon!

You can use these minutes on free amatuer sex webcam or free phonesex at Niteflirt. Good for 30 days only, so get em while they’re hot!

But gush I must: Goddess Ava is by far one of my favorite ladies on Niteflirt. She is drop-dead gorgeous, huge bazooms, mean-ish (in a sexy way). Just an all-around SEX GODDESS.

I don’t know what else to say, because seeing her makes my knees go wobbly.

I swear I don’t know Goddess Ava, though I’d like to. LOL. Here’s her link: Goddess Ava

And before you call, why not take advantage of the Niteflirt free minute program if you’ve never called them before. First time callers get three free minutes!

So far. Others are welcome to write reviews of good phone sex and webcams they’ve seen and used. So feel free to contribute if you have something to say. You can email us at dungeoncamnet at gmail dot com. Put that all together in an email address…that hopefully keeps the email harvesting robots from adding us to their lists.

I wanted to write a review about a real life couple named Chrissy and Danny, but they’ve disappeared. I’ll go ahead and tell you about them, because they were the best! Maybe they’ll return, let’s hope so. They are an amature webcam couple, nude and fetish/bdsm cam.

I don’t know if they were married or living together, doesn’t matter. They sure liked to get nasty on cam! They had a website (now gone) where you could watch them get freaky and kinky. I don’t remember the cost, but it wasn’t outrageous. Jen and I aren’t rich - we’re working stiffs - so we have a budget to maintain. We call our cam/phone sex addiction part of our entertainment budget. Since we don’t get out that much, we justify it by saying it’s money we would have spent on movies and concerts, but instead, we just spend it on sex stuff. Why not?

Anyway, back to this couple. Damn, they were hot. Obviously east coasters based on their heavy accents, and they were kinky as fuck. Sex toys, Master/slave roles, collars, paddling, you name it, they did it. (Within the law of course) They even did some golden showers. That’s not my thing, but was kind of interesting to watch now and then.

Maybe all this new legal hassle has scared them off? Come back, Danny and Chrissy!!!!!

One night, they turned on their cam for us, we called them and we all used speaker phone, then they did their thing and we did ours at the same time. When Chrissy bent over for a spanking, Jen did the same. When Chrissy opened her piehole and took his cock down her throat, we copied.

It was the next best thing to the four of us being in the same room and fucking our sluts like the naughty sluts they are. God that was one wild night.

Man, just thinking about that couple on cam and that crazy night has given me the biggest boner. I’m going to have to cut this one short, head to Niteflirt, find a hot cam girl and rub one out. Unfortunately, my wife is off shopping, so somebody else is gonna hafta help old Rick out here…mmmm.

Live Amateur Girl Webcam Laws Get Tougher

That said, there are new, stricter laws concerning adult websites. The laws used to be more vague and amateur personal sites really didn’t have a lot of rules to follow. As long as you (and anyone you showed on your site) were of age, the only thing you really had to worry about was making sure your webhost was okay with adult materials. It was always kind of understood that if you did any bondage or S&M stuff, you couldn’t do any sexual stuff at the same time. In other words, I couldn’t be bound and gagged, and then getting fucked by a guy at the same time. Getting fucked was okay, and being bound and gagged was okay, but no combo platters.

Then the US government decided to get tough on porn.

They’ve enacted new laws and the laws are strict as hell. It’s all gone back and forth for a couple of years, with legal wrangling here and there, but as it stands now, the law is the law, and if you’re an American doing any kind of adult website, you are required to follow those laws. It’s complicated and requires a lot of reading. If you’re smart, you’ve hired an attorney to assist you, but some of this stuff is open to interpretation and two attorneys may say two different things.

It affects every single person who runs a website with any adult content, if they’re in the US.

Disclaimer: I’m not a lawyer and I’m not an expert on these laws. I’ve only tried to keep up with them so I stay legal and don’t end up fined or worse…in prison.

What does this mean for webcam girls? Well, it’s the record keeping that is killer. You can still do all the fucking and sucking you want, but you’ve got to keep insane records. What’s worse is that every time you do a webcam show, you have to record it, file it, make records, and keep copies.

It used to be that you just turned on the fucking cam, guys called, you had fun and that was that. Now, to stay within the law, we have to record every fucking camshow. It not only takes some of the spontaneity out of doing cam, it turns it into a hassle, and it takes up a lot of space on your hard drive if you cam all day long.

But, like taxes, it’s the law. And like taxes, there are a lot of people out there just skipping it, saying fuck it. And there are, I’m sure, a number of girls out there who don’t even know because they just do their thing and don’t talk with others and don’t read adult news sites.

Maybe by the time the feds decide to start inspecting records of cam girls, the law will have evolved into something less restrictive, or injunctions will have put a stop to some aspects of it, or a new administration will decide to put those resources into hunting for terrorists instead of inspecting the bedrooms of webcam girls.

I’m being a bit dramatic, because as far as I know, no webcam girl or Niteflirt girl or amateur site owner has been inspected. The inspections have started, but they’ve been limited to porn video producers and mega huge professional porn sites. That doesn’t mean, though, that tomorrow they won’t put me or others on their inspection list.

I’ve consulted an attorney to help me figure out what I need to do to stay compliant, and it’s a bigger headache than income taxes. And income taxes when you’re self employed are a HUGE headache. No 1040A for us.

We can continue to hope things will change, but for now, the choice is to get and stay legal or run the risk of a bad outcome. I hate being a conformist, but I’d hate prison life even more. And a ten grand fine just isn’t in my budget right now.

So what does it all mean? The bottom line is that it’s scared some girls away from doing cam altogether. There’s just too much you have to do to stay legal. I actually considered that myself, but I like camming too much (and I make more money, don’t kid yourself, we aren’t doing this as a social service). Therefore, you’ll see fewer girls doing cam. Fortunately, phone sex doesn’t require recording and keeping records of every call. Yet.

On the flip side of all this, it’s got to be a bonanza for girls in other countries. This is US law, and as far as I understand, does not apply in any way to Canadians, Brits, etc. I know some Canadians have decided to go complaint with US law because their sites are hosted on US servers, but I don’t think the feds are going to cross the border and inspect Canadian bedrooms.

Since I don’t keep up with laws in other countries, Canada and the UK may follow and enact similar laws. I’m clueless.

I only know what affects me, I don’t like it, but I’ve chosen to follow the law and record every fucking cam show I do. Every time I stick something in my ass…..it’s now in a video file on my computer, tagged and labeled, cross referenced four thousand times and every t is crossed.

It all blows, but then so do taxes.

As Rick mentioned, I do webcam and phone sex. I’m a genuine live webcam girl, nude and sexy and I do it all. However, I’m remaining anonymous here so I can speak my mind without worrying about pissing people off and I don’t have to censor ANYTHING I say.

I’ve been using the Niteflirt platform for a few years now, and really love it. They are the most reliable system out there - I’ve used others as well - and most of the time their rules are straightforward and easy to understand. I’m not normally a conformist, but it’s their site, their rules and I like having my account. I once accidentally (through ignorance of the rules) had a picture of something not allowed on my Niteflirt page, and got my account suspended. Fortunately, I think they realize that sometimes you just fuck up, and I removed the offending picture, they reinstated my account. I’ve since read the rules more carefully and follow them.

I know from chatting with others from Niteflirt that sometimes they suspend an account (or worse) for unknown or incorrect reasons, and I may rant about that another time.

I just wanted to pop in, say hello and thanks to DungeonCam.net for giving me a voice.

I would also like to make it clear that I am not speaking for all cam girls, just myself. These are my opinions and thoughts, although I do communicate with others and have a handle on general issues in camming and phone sex.

I’m not here to bash other cam girls (or guys). That’s not my style. I may bitch from time to time, but overall, the guys and gals at Niteflirt are a pretty decent group of people. We’re no different from you, except that instead of watching cams, we like to be on the other side. We’re real people. Remember that!

She’s going to be occasionally commenting on the views of myself and my wife as voyeurs, and she’ll be writing from time to time on the state of webcams and phone sex, from the perspective of an amateur on the other end of the camera/phone.

I think it will offer a great deal of insight for those of us who like to tune in, on what makes her tick, what pisses her off, and how to get the most out of your session.

Tessa emailed me earlier and we spent this evening discussing details. If at some point she wants to get rid of the anonymous bit, that’s her choice. So if she doesn’t tell you who she is, and obviously can’t promote her cam if you don’t know who she is…what does she get out of this?

I’ll let her tell you in more detail, but in short, she gets to talk about her frustrations, her funny moments and educate those of us who watch. She does have a personal blog, but said she feels constricted by cultural taboos. So she gets a forum and doesn’t have to worry that she might hurt someone’s feelings or step on a fellow amateur’s toes.

What I get out of it is obvious. A bit of fresh air, an alternative viewpoint, and hopefully some interesting reads!

The only ground rule we set down is that I won’t be reviewing her webcam or promoting it in any way. I really don’t give a shit about political crap or conflicts of interest, but if we didn’t set down that one rule it could lead to problems amongst us here.

Tomorrow I’ll set up a system so it’s clear who is doing the posting, perhaps with a little picture when it’s me, one for my wife, and another for Tessa.

With that out of the way, Dungeoncam.net extends a warm welcome to Tessa! We look forward to your posts!

My wife and I definitely prefer amateur phone sex girls with cam who do it on their own. Yes, they’re doing it to make some money. But a lot of them also really get off on being an exhibitionist. And let’s face it, if you were a cam girl, why give it away when you can charge for it?

The amateur phone sex cams, on places like Niteflirt and Talk Sugar, operate pretty straightforward. You add money to your account and look at the webcams currently online, then call. Phone talk is required with these webcam amatuer. Live chat can intimidate some, so if you’re shy, just tell them and they’ll help you. Different individuals do different things. Couples may do bondage or anal sex, among other things. Individual girls might get naked for you and do a striptease, perhaps masturbate. Same with men (some cater to the gay crowd, others to horny women needing some fun).

FemDommes are a class all their own and they have their own rules. Some may allow you to view their feet, look at their strapon, or view them in a kinky outfit. Others may show you their tits…it all depends on the Domme. You’ll have to figure out what kind of viewing experience YOU want, and then find the person(s) who match your needs.

The other kind of adult cams, the warehouses, are just a different breed. There’s nothing wrong with them, but just not suited to my taste. Basically with these, you have a page full of ladies to choose from, then enter a chat room. You see a woman on cam and the chat usually goes something like this:

guest12345: Take off ur cloths
pimpman: Hey what every1 doin
guest12345: Take off ur cloths
cuteguy: I’m bored somebody say sumthin
guest12345: Take off ur cloths

You watch the cam girl awhile and your choice becomes to either pay for a private show or sit there and watch the ongoing chat. The girl goes in and out every time she gets a private request.

Now, every cam is different, but my experience with these is that most of the girls are in Eastern Europe, their English skills range from good to barely, and smiles cost extra. I always get the idea that back in a one-room apartment somewhere in Krakow, there’s a grandma, a dirty kid and a couple of cousins waiting for “Mina” to return home with some cash so they can eat.

I’ve always found this webcam experience just plain sad, although I felt obligated to drop a little money on them out of sympathy.

The other end of that warehouse spectrum seems to be a setup in a warehouse somewhere. The “sets” (a cheesy backdrop and bed or cheap couch) are the same, the girls do shifts.

That’s why I’ve become fond of Niteflirt especially, and also Talk Sugar. These are mostly independent women/tranny/men/couples who want to run their own webcam, but find these sites easier to work on than running their own sites. (Many have their own sites, but direct people through Niteflirt and Talk Sugar.)

The days of the independent webcam erotic site I’m afraid are gone due to restrictions with the credit card companies, among other things. I used to enjoy two other sites besides dungeoncam: isabellacam and coupletv. Both are now gone.

So let’s get back to what I DO like. I like a one-on-one communication. Someone at a webcam doing sexy things and me on the other end, watching and talking to them.

Do I prefer Niteflirt or Talk Sugar? I do. Honestly, a number of the webcam and phone sex girls do both platforms. So you’ll see a lot of the same faces on both places. I do prefer Niteflirt over Talk Sugar, mainly because it’s been easier to use, fewer glitches and a lot bigger selection of people to choose from. But there’s nothing wrong with Talk Sugar.

With both places, you get some free minutes the first time you call. Most of the cammers use Yahoo Webcam (meaning you view via your Yahoo Messenger) or Eyeball Chat. You’ll need to be set up for those and they’ll almost always spell it out clearly on their pages.

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Unfortunately, they’ve removed their website. I emailed them and they said the new regulations were a little too strict for them, but they were planning to get a lawyer to make sure they were doing everything legally, then regroup. They also said they’ve decided to move to the Niteflirt platform because it puts the financial end into the hands of a trusted company, and away from the headaches they’ve had with private credit card processors that either go out of business overnight or make it very difficult for the adult amateur webcam. Live sex is considered by the credit card companies to be pretty naughty and while they want your money, they have their own issues.

So I’m not going to post their names and website since the website is down. But as soon as they get back online I’ll be tuning in and writing a detailed review! These people were NASTY as all hell. Loved it.

Here are some free minutes for you:

I may add more as I go, but you can see the listing in the sidebar on the right. I’m placing this post in each category as a reference point. So I’ve got fetish webcams, live amateur sex webcam, and webcam couples. That leaves niche webcams like BBW, ebony, latina and so on.

Won’t it be fun when I actually start posting reviews!

I’m trying to figure out the best way to start the reviews. I’m not into bashing cams we watched that we weren’t crazy about, unless there’s really a reason to bash them. Like maybe they were some kind of scam. But often, one person’s bad webcam might be another person’s good webcam.

We all have our own fetishes and likes and dislikes, and sometimes it’s just not a good fit between the watcher and the cam girl. When that happens, it’s best to just admit it to her and say goodbye. No need to be rude and hang up without a goodbye. I think cam girls have feelings too.

That said, since some of these cams we’ve seen were in the past, it’s hard to write a detailed review of what we liked and didn’t like. So I may just list a few that stick out in our memory as ones we liked. And then write more detailed reviews as we watch them.

Remember, we’re just a couple that likes to view webcams. We aren’t professional webmasters or anything. So don’t hold us to the same standard you might hold someone like Green Guy to. Thanks!